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OkCupid gave 3M dating-app photos to facial recognition firm, FTC says (arstechnica.com)
ChrisArchitect 1 days ago [-]
everdrive 1 days ago [-]
At this point, nearly every online service should be considered hostile. If they can make a small amount of money by compromising your privacy or your identity, they will. If they can make a small amount of money by stealing your attention and addicting you, they will.

Are there exceptions? I'm sure. Will I be erring sometimes by being cautious? Definitely. But, there is really not much of an alternative these days.

freeAgent 23 hours ago [-]
This sort of stuff continues to ramp up as everyone rushes to train LLMs while governments are pushing for ID verification that would make it impossible to use the web (or even one's own computer) anonymously. It's a very dark time for anyone who cares whatsoever about privacy or digital sovereignty.
rdevilla 21 hours ago [-]
Nonsense, I have it on good authority that the old internet sans LLM surveillance capitalism is still alive and well. You just stopped going there.

https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=47589055

pixelmelt 16 hours ago [-]
And so did everyone else, making it... Dead? If you've got some good alternative communities then do tell!
stephenhuey 1 days ago [-]
I have long wondered about the market size for privacy-focused apps. Sure, plenty of people don't know or don't care to value that, but if there are enough, maybe you could have a whole set of apps that emphasize they are not seeking world domination or selling out to the highest bidder, and a major selling point for using them would be that they are not < your expected chat/dating/photo/social site >.

Am I too idealistic? If such apps are not aggressively seeking hyper growth, it seems like these more trustworthy services could be deployed to cheap servers and let people use them for cheap without having to resort to selling user data.

JohnFen 1 days ago [-]
> I have long wondered about the market size for privacy-focused apps.

The real problem is how to trust that a "privacy-focused" app is actually privacy-focused. You certainly can't take the publisher's word for it.

The only safe stance is to withhold as much personal information from as much software and services as possible.

pesus 1 days ago [-]
Even if they were initially trustworthy, it's surely only a matter of time before they start wanting/needing to make (more) money and start abandoning their principles in pursuit of profit.
neuralRiot 23 hours ago [-]
Or the company is sold to a big corp that doesn’t give a dammn about or privacy or one whose goal is to actually get the data.
asveikau 22 hours ago [-]
> The real problem is how to trust that a "privacy-focused" app is actually privacy-focused

I think the real problem is actually that legislative bodies will make privacy focused apps illegal. California AB 1043 is an example of what can happen.

OkayPhysicist 22 hours ago [-]
If a company wanted to, they absolutely could include something along the lines of "If we violate the terms of this privacy policy, we owe all affected users $1000" in their Terms of Service. Pointing a gun at their own head to prove that they're serious. Companies don't do this, because they are cowards.
andy99 21 hours ago [-]
That is gimmicky and would be an extremely low trust signal.
OkayPhysicist 21 hours ago [-]
How is that a low trust signal? It's grounds to sue. Crank the number up to the limit of small claims in whatever jurisdiction you're based in.

If it was legal to say "If I break this oath, you can fucking shoot me" in a contract, I'd suggest that. The entire point of the exercise is "we promise do the right thing, and to keep us honest we have set up a system by which you can destroy us if we violate that promise".

Corporations can't swear on their life, as they have no life to offer. They can swear on their cash, and by such their ongoing existence.

kube-system 1 days ago [-]
This is a multi-axis problem.

On one spectrum, you have privacy -- at one extreme, the most private of people don't even use social apps, they are traditionally private people. At the other extreme, you have the highest consumers of apps -- the people who demand sharing the most.

On the other spectrum, you have technical acuity -- at one extreme you have people who can audit software they use and verify that it actually does what it says -- at the other extreme, you have people who have no clue and will believe whatever is convincing.

Given this, the market for "app that enables sharing, but has privacy controls, and is verifiably so" is a tiny circle somewhere in the middle of this grid.

JohnFen 1 days ago [-]
> at one extreme you have people who can audit software they use and verify that it actually does what it says

Unless the software sends data off to the cloud or a sever somewhere. You can't audit what happens there.

kube-system 24 hours ago [-]
I was referring to the acuity of potential users, who like you, would be able to identify that.
nemomarx 1 days ago [-]
Users who want to be private and are willing to pay extra for it are necessarily highly valuable for data brokers and advertisers. So incentives always push towards betraying them eventually I think.
jmye 1 days ago [-]
Is that true? Not arguing, just curious. I would imagine that the highly valuable users are those most likely to buy things, and people that into privacy would be fundamentally more likely to also go to extremes to block that advertising, but this is very much not my area.
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nonameiguess 1 days ago [-]
Not privacy-focused, but OKCupid itself fit many of your requirements when it first came out. It wasn't aggressively seeking hyper growth and barely marketed outside of existing SparkNotes and SparkMatch users. It was just a few math nerds at Harvard that wanted to model human romantic compatibility by categorizing you into a shareable cutely named personality type, and they bolted on crowd-sourced questions to see if whatever they hadn't thought of themselves might be relevant.

Ten years later, the social media revolution is in full swing, the relatively small service they built that had catered mostly to nerds was suddenly lucrative, and they sell to Match Group and this happens.

To be entirely fair to these guys, I don't think they came into it intending to sell out as their long-term goal. But four guys who got into data analytics in college also didn't find themselves as their mid-30s approached particularly wanting to run a dating service for the rest of their lives, either.

Whatever happened to FetLife? If any dating service had to be privacy-focused, that was it.

throwway120385 1 days ago [-]
The problem is that large-scale use of the Internet for social networks and for organizing meetings in real life is fundamentally incompatible with privacy. It works for small, tight-knit insular groups, but as soon as you expand the scope of the network to include acquaintances and friends of friends you'll eventually find a connection to someone who cares less about privacy than about making a buck.

If we had a sort of "federated" system we'd still have this problem because you might always find yourself federated with someone who just wants to sell the information.

It's a cultural problem within this hyper-aggressive version of Capitalism that we've adopted, that even data about people has value. Until we decide as a culture that this kind of data sale or data use is shameful and unacceptable we'll be in this situation no matter what technical solution we adopt.

fsflover 23 hours ago [-]
F-Droid is the app store for such apps. FLOSS requirement ensures that everyone can verify the claims.
dfxm12 24 hours ago [-]
Popular apps, like OKCupid, will get bought, along with their user data. Also, mission creeps when management changes.

I mean, an app that starts out as "privacy focused" won't necessarily stay that way.

gjsman-1000 1 days ago [-]
> Am I too idealistic?

Open source developers are wildly idealistic. In the rest of the world, I have finally internalized...

1. Most people say they care about privacy... but won't spend even $1 for it. They care about their privacy about as much as an open source developer cares about user experience. Just extract the tarball, it's not that hard.

2. Most people don't care about technology and want it out of their lives. They don't want to know what sideloading is. They don't want to know how to discern safe from dangerous. And they aren't wrong. How many open source developers know how to drive manual? Car enthusiasts have just as much of a righteous claim to attention, after all. The model railroad enthusiasts are also upset by our community's lack of attention. Every enthusiast, in every field, hundreds of them, are upset by lack of mainstream attention, and this will never change.

3. Linux and open source software in general are not even close to being popular on the desktop. Gaming and web browsing is a tiny subset of what people buy PCs to do, and Linux isn't even close on the rest. Even the gaming success is so niche it's irrelevant in the grand scheme of things (Switch 2 outsold 3 years Steam Deck sales in the first 24 hours).

4. Some of this optimism was deluded from the start. Like when Stallman said we can defeat proprietary software with open source, then openly admitted he had no idea how any open source developers could afford rent. "If everyone works for free, while the big companies stop working, we could get ahead" is gobsmackingly naive and it's honestly astounding anyone fell for it.

LtWorf 15 hours ago [-]
> Most people say they care about privacy... but won't spend even $1 for it.

Maybe they are smarter than you and noticed that trust is being violated constantly so paying for it in no way means you will obtain it and is just a waste of money?

noman-land 21 hours ago [-]
My advice has long beem to delete every single account you've ever created on every platform.

The chance of the data leaking nears 100% with time.

The corporate cloud is a seriously unsafe place to be. It's a dangerous place to store your intimate secrets and a shaky foundation on which to build a culture.

influx 17 hours ago [-]
Do most SaaS actually delete or do they just store a tombstone in the database for your account?
xprnio 9 hours ago [-]
If I understand GDPR and “the Right to be forgotten” properly, then yes - they would have to actually delete the information.

Edit: at least when it comes to PII, which I presume should include photos of you, or any personal detail of you. The content you may have posted there up until then - that might be a different story

deepsun 21 hours ago [-]
Well you still have account on HN.
noman-land 18 hours ago [-]
This place is already public.
rdevilla 21 hours ago [-]
Yes, and then you end up a digital ghost like me with people filling in the gaps of your identity with their midwit sub-median projections of who they think you are; not to mention the fact that your absence from the internet is itself considered by many a red flag.

When your digital identity is a blank page, expect idiots to start scribbling all over it like a dive bar urinal stall. All this while they claim to not be presumptuous of gender, race, and identity, and pat themselves on the back for being such nice people.

That's OK. As a societal scale Rorshach it just reveals the utter moral bankruptcy and hypocrisy of the progressive movement, which thankfully is now in its twilight years. In terms of how the injustice will be corrected, however, I have negative optimism.

seattle_spring 19 hours ago [-]
Oh wow, is this Curtis Yarvin's HN account?
rdevilla 19 hours ago [-]
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mixmastamyk 19 hours ago [-]
Yes, please join us at: https://trustworthy.technology/
andai 23 hours ago [-]
I want to say "we structured the system like that, right?", i.e. maximize profit at all costs.

But it seems to be the natural outcome of the incentives, of an organization made of organisms in an entropy-based simulation.

i.e. the problem might be slightly deeper than an economic or political model. That being said, we might see something approximating post-scarcity economics in our lifetimes, which will be very interesting.

In the meantime... we might fiddle with the incentives a bit ;)

als0 23 hours ago [-]
> we might see something approximating post-scarcity economics in our lifetimes

Can you elaborate more on this? All I see is growing inequality.

hamdingers 23 hours ago [-]
The upper arm of the K shaped economy uses their capital to invent and control the replicator and the lower arm dies off? Seems like the most realistic path to "post-scarcity" from where we're standing now.
thowaway92731 21 hours ago [-]
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rglullis 21 hours ago [-]
> every online service

This deserves a few qualifiers. I think this should be applied to any service that is

- "free" or "freemium"

- wrapped as a black box which gives no way out for customers.

There are plenty of companies out there who provide services based on FOSS, but we collectively shy away from paying them because it seems "silly" to pay for software that people can run for free.

gmerc 20 hours ago [-]
24andme was not free. Any investor backed startup or PE acquirable will sell all assets to Peter Thiel ventures eventually to make some last cash.

Most AI startups will never be profitable.

rglullis 16 hours ago [-]
"23andme", you mean? They were not free, but they were not building their product on open standards, were they? So the don't my pass my filter as well.
prepend 1 days ago [-]
I’ve never posted information anywhere off a machine that I control unless I’m comfortable with it being sold or made public.

Reduces anxiety.

wildpeaks 21 hours ago [-]
One issue is other people might still upload information about you, so you'd have to limit your irl interactions as well
cromka 1 days ago [-]
That's great if you live like it's still the 90s.
stickfigure 21 hours ago [-]
So the answer is to go back to the 80s and not have social software at all?
pwndByDeath 23 hours ago [-]
I guess I have no sympathy for the addicts, let the social media hyper capitalists consume your FOMO lives, I'll find value elsewhere. It is sad to see how pathetic we are and yet have so much potential.
uoaei 1 days ago [-]
The persistence of data means that if you expect a firm to eventually become hostile, you should treat them as hostile today.
Henchman21 19 hours ago [-]
This is how I've begun to feel about US-based businesses in general. As a US citizen it's a bit of a conundrum..
deadbabe 21 hours ago [-]
I think eventually we will revert back to a Dark Forest model for online services, where people stay hidden and anonymous to carefully avoid being preyed on by looming corporations.
Simulacra 24 hours ago [-]
Another point to add, is that old saying: if the service is free, you are the product. I have long considered that dating apps are taking all of our data, and selling it. What's more personal than social media? What do you think about dating. Who you swipe on, the information you put in there, all deeply personal. Sometimes more so than what you put on places like Facebook
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saintfire 22 hours ago [-]
"... agreed to a permanent prohibition barring them from misrepresenting how they use and share personal data. "

So... Their punishment for breaking the law is having to promise to follow the law going forward?

I wish I had that superpower, too.

eviks 16 hours ago [-]
But this time it's permanent!
eqvinox 20 hours ago [-]
Was about to post just this. What kind of joke is this?
Igor_Wiwi 1 days ago [-]
Reminds me of another story when 23andme sold dna data https://www.npr.org/2025/06/30/nx-s1-5451398/23andme-sale-ap...
KennyBlanken 23 hours ago [-]
I remember warning everyone I knew that 23andme was about to go bankrupt and this would almost certainly mean all their data being sold to anyone they could.

I was dismissed. "The privacy policy doesn't allow it"

Peeps: privacy policies are not binding agreements, and even if they were, it always allows a corporation to sell your data.

Always.

No matter what it says today, because literally tomorrow they can change it to whatever they want.

cromka 21 hours ago [-]
Didn't this actually not happen at the end of the day?
deinonychus 17 hours ago [-]
this story is about 23andme selling dna data to 23andme
selcuka 15 hours ago [-]
No, they are different entities. Having the same founder does not mean much in this context. You signed a contract with 23andme, not Regeneron Pharmaceuticals.
bensyverson 22 hours ago [-]
Oh man… all across Chicago, lawyers are popping champagne right now. [0]

[0]: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Biometric_Information_Privacy_...

cromka 22 hours ago [-]
"The Act prescribes $1,000 per violation, and $5,000 per violation if the violation is intentional or reckless."

Per violation. Wow.

bensyverson 20 hours ago [-]
Yep, I've made hundreds of dollars by being a Chicagoan who once used Facebook.
tehnub 21 hours ago [-]
This incident was from 2014. I wonder how many OKCupid employees and shareholders from then are still at/invested in the company. What do corporate punishments do if the people who made the mistake aren't even there to receive them?
eviks 16 hours ago [-]
They do exactly the same as when the people are around to receive the unbearable punishment of... promising the company will follow the law

> OkCupid and Match do not have to pay a financial penalty in a deal made with the FTC over an incident from 2014. OkCupid and Match did not admit or deny the allegations but agreed to a permanent prohibition barring them from misrepresenting how they use and share personal data

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doodlebugging 1 days ago [-]
I suspect that instead of them "giving" the photos to the facial recognition firm they sold them. Those photos and the PII data associated with them are the only things of value that a site like OKCupid controls.
Bengalilol 23 hours ago [-]
> But even if they had no “commercial agreement,” Zeiler [Clarifai CEO] told the Times that his company gained access to user photos because some of OkCupid’s founders invested in Clarifai.

And

> In September 2014, the CEO of Clarifai, Inc. e-mailed one of OkCupid’s founders requesting that Humor Rainbow give Clarifai, Inc. (i.e., the Data Recipient) access to large datasets of OkCupid photos. Despite not having any business relationship with Humor Rainbow, the Data Recipient sought Humor Rainbow’s assistance because each of OkCupid’s founders, including Humor Rainbow’s President and Match Group, LLC’s CEO, were financially invested in the Data Recipient.

neilv 22 hours ago [-]
Lawyers: Besides whatever issue the company(ies) and investors might have with that behavior (self-dealing?), could it also let wronged individuals pierce the corporate veil, to go after personal assets?

Could this be the backstabbing surveillance capitalism incident that finally gives pause to tech executives?

thinkcontext 24 hours ago [-]
You are wrong, the article discusses this in detail.
IncreasePosts 24 hours ago [-]
The company was run by someone on the board of directors for ok cupid so it likely was just given
fuzzfactor 16 hours ago [-]
I get the idea that the OkCupid founders & investors did as well as they could with their dating business, and as a "byproduct" they built up a valuable representative database along the way.

Money was already being made off the dating alone, and the accumulating facial data was a no-cost item from the beginning.

Even though the data is mainly just a working foundation for the dating service, eventually the database got so big that lots of value could be extracted in other ways.

It would be difficult to put an exact dollar figure on the value of a database like that itself for sure.

And selling it could be considered unethical in some peoples' eyes, so those in control could very well have decided to start that adjacent facial recognition company in response. After all, regardless of an inaccurately valued asset, OkCupid is not passing the data on to a different company for good. The dating company is not losing anything nor getting any compensation for it. OkCupid just keeps on going like normal while the new face-recognition company springs up.

This is AI. This "limited" facial recognition approach doesn't require ownership of the data, they just needed to "borrow" it for a while.

nova22033 23 hours ago [-]
OkCupid and Match do not have to pay a financial penalty
JoeAltmaier 22 hours ago [-]
In a free market the company that makes every cent they can has a survival advantage. Enough time and transactions and the market will be made entirely of survivors. The rest will have been out-competed.

One counter-pressure is regulation. But hey the US has a fetish about deregulation and so here we are.

eviks 16 hours ago [-]
How does giving data out for free, no cents involved, match with your template?
ge96 1 days ago [-]
At least back then it was just 2D Tinder for verified you have to do the side to side maybe photogrammetry

I don't participate in this stuff anymore the dating app algos have put me in the ugly stack, sad but true

Also nowadays hard to tell if people are real

aitchnyu 1 days ago [-]
Google GCP updates me with a list of third party subprocessors which potentially interact with my data. All end users of any service should be informed of direct and transitive subprocessors.
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8cvor6j844qw_d6 15 hours ago [-]
For anyone with experience in this area. If you had to pick one for identity verification, which would you choose?

- Card payment (non-prepaid cards)

- Government ID photo or passport

- Live video recording

glerk 24 hours ago [-]
I'm going to say this plainly for the log trace: once the flip switches and these evil corporations and their human appendages are stripped of any amount of power, I hope the correction will take the form of "re-education" rather than mere emotional retribution.
ssl-3 24 hours ago [-]
That'd be nice. But if it is even possible, we won't be around to see it happen.
mschuster91 23 hours ago [-]
> I hope the correction will take the form of "re-education" rather than mere emotional retribution.

Why? There is no re-education that could make someone like Sam Altman, Elon Musk, Donald Trump or the people behind Match Group be a net positive contributor to society again.

Therefore... I'm fine with everything that makes them suffer, just like they made us all suffer.

mancerayder 19 hours ago [-]
In a decade from now, there will be laws restricting this sort of crap. In three decades from now, it'll be a historical scandal.
amelius 1 days ago [-]
In these cases can we use 3.0M to disambiguate from the company name?
tantalor 22 hours ago [-]
ex1fm3ta 1 days ago [-]
The vast majority of users have not idea what exif metadata are. It's probably time to look it up. You know that automatic geographic location data that shows up in your favourite photo app ... There you go.
cromka 22 hours ago [-]
Looking forward to my 30 USD class action compensation.
Lio 1 days ago [-]
> The alleged conduct at issue does not reflect how OkCupid operates today.

I mean, come on. This bullshit is what you said before.

You haven’t changed, you’re just pissed off you caught but a bit smug you got away with it scott free.

ianberdin 22 hours ago [-]
If people can misuse - they will.
josefritzishere 1 days ago [-]
Does this still leave them open to liabi9lity in a class action lawsuit? The criminality is staggering.
cmxch 1 days ago [-]
Between this and “date safety” invasions of privacy, maybe have a discussion on data ownership and privacy?
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Theodores 1 days ago [-]
From what I understand, most profiles in dating sites are ghosts or bots of some sort. As for what is left, there will be those photos of six foot tall men that happen to be five foot and exaggerating somewhat. As for age information, isn't everyone lying about that?

All considered, I can't think of a worse database to train facial recognition on.

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cineticdaffodil 23 hours ago [-]
Joke is on them i generated that face
baldrunner2049 1 days ago [-]
Counting the number of comments in this thread 50 minutes later (2 including mine), I can just extrapolate most of HNers have an OKCupid account
glerk 23 hours ago [-]
I never created an OkCupid account, but I've had someone create an account with my name and pictures for who knows what purpose. Getting it closed required me sending OkCupid my ID and a selfie after a couple of angry emails threatening legal action. No way around it and no way to know what they did with it afterwards.
amiantos 1 days ago [-]
Considering how long OKCupid has been around, there's a good chance a significant majority of internet-using millennials have had an account at some point in their lives.
morkalork 24 hours ago [-]
It was good. I can't tell you if it is anymore tho
crooked-v 21 hours ago [-]
It stopped being good when Match bought them and turned it into Tinder 2.
tenderfault 1 days ago [-]
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